I recently found out my wife was active on a dating app.
We’ve been married for six years. We have routines, date nights, and shared dreams… or so I thought.
I couldn’t believe it at first. I needed proof. So I did what I thought was clever:
I made a fake profile.
New name. New photo. Different city. But I made sure the personality matched hers — someone she’d be drawn to.
And she was.
We matched within hours.
I flirted. She flirted back. We chatted for days. I asked about her life — she never once mentioned being married. Never mentioned me.
Then I asked for a photo.
What she sent nearly stopped my heart.
It was a photo of her… in our bedroom. Wearing the same pajamas she wore the night before — the same ones she hugged me in before bed.
I stared at the screen, numb. The setting, the expression, the intimacy — and yet it was meant for a stranger.
For a man who didn’t exist.
For the man she thought wasn’t her husband.
And in that moment, I realized I wasn’t just looking at a betrayal —
I was looking at the distance that had quietly grown between us.